6 Ways to Tell if You're a Side Chick

Seems to me that too many men think they're out here winning the game by playing these women like fools. Taking on the Stevie J. mentality that he can have his entree and still have something on the side. Well, ladies I put together a short series of some ways to know if you're a side chick for your convenience. Take notes!

IF...

• All of your communication is through text messaging.

Yes! You don't have to talk everyday, all day but if you NEVER talk on the phone or hardly see each other in person he's more than likely not trying to make it anything "serious" with you. He just might be spending his time doing things he actually likes.

• He hushes you before picking up the phone.

This is a clear give away that you're a side chick!! He's not trying to let anyone know you are in the same presence..

• He doesn't allow you to take pictures with him.

He's afraid of being seen with you. He doesn't want to get caught up. With social media at an all time high, there's no telling where those pictures might end up and who's eyes will view them. 

• He doesn't really care if he sees you or not.

When a man is into you he'll want to spend some time with you. No matter how long or short. You're most likely a side chick if you both have free time and you never hang out.

• You get put in last place.

If any and everything comes before you, YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK! Please understand that work doesn't apply because a man has to make his money, but if all his partying comes before you he probably doesn't care much about you.

• You're constantly in competition.

If you find yourself constantly trying to be more relevant than what he makes you, you are not main stream. His friends & fam know nothing about you, and his female friends get more play than you. Congratulations Hunny, YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK!

*Please note that this applies to those who think they are girl friend or number 1 and are in all reality, SIDE CHICKS!